Tantric dream. Equilibrium, serenity, peace of
mind, body, spirit, connecting couple as one. Here Fantasy.
"Sweet dreams are made of
these…”
Build together your temple for
two.
TANTRIC DREAM
Love, no ejaculation and female orgasms.
Couple LOVE being eternal. A tantric interpretation. Relaxed and happy
couple in everlasting love.
1.- Love above all things. Communication, comprehension,
respect, love, support, admiration, honesty, friendship, trustworthiness,
loyalty; calm, patience and understanding in disagreements; spirit, mind, body
and sex of both connected in complicity and completeness; relaxation, sex,
respect and love as a key; humility, apologize for errors and amending purpose,
perceiving the lover even more than as part of us, the two a single
whole.
2.- Libido power and sex as essential key of the couple, more
than this, and to achieve transcendent states and eternity of the couple, shall
be a constantly sexual stimulation of erogenous zones, mainly male erection and
worship of the female body as a goddess, this will be one source of the union.
2.1.- Female need to feel sexual energy continuously fed and released by
orgasm, which will derive in her health and equilibrium, multi-orgasm and
relaxation, and increasing affinity to male.
Worship of the female body as a goddess, as the core of the connection,
providing constantly sexual body stimulation, relaxing pleasures, massages,
baths, and a tantric atmosphere, by a male enjoying, learning and pleasing.
2.2.- Male erection would be desirable to be stimulated by female
continuously and maintained as long as possible, as much as she wishes, and would
not be released by ejaculation, maximizing this energy of the couple, calmly,
and only would be permitted following precepts:
+ Will always prevail consensual agreement, this is the
essence.
+ Male would not ejaculate
with complete orgasm, minimizing or without “orgasm-of-ejaculation”
to maintain energy, and only would be allowed complete ejaculation, as to drain
fully the fluid or/and to provide complete ejaculation orgasm, depending on
accorded, during agreed releasing days, always and everything consensual,
in the next order of preference by means of:
a.- “Ejaculation-drainage”
without orgasm: in consensual agreement, due to male slight pain or
discomfort, in case of need, helped by or not by prostate stimulation or Prostate
drainage/massage.
b.- Interrupted
orgasm-of-ejaculation: abandoning ejaculation or causing slight consensual pain
or distraction, in the middle or in the beginning of the spurt, and could be
continued (or not) by prostate drainage.
c.- Complete orgasm of ejaculation:
valuing the couple, consensual as everything.
3.- This practice will also lead to achieve a multi-orgasmic male, able
to orgasm without ejaculation (dry orgasm are allowed and desirables),
separating orgasm from ejaculation, and reaching the greatest climax, of a
“new” complete orgasm of ejaculation, and a more orgasmic, relaxed and
delighted female, able to reach the greatest orgasm and climax, and
the more intense connection of the couple, ever, creating their own
protected world.
INSPIRED BY TANTRA
Root Awakening
Massaging the root (anal
stimulation) is a sacred technique that creates a powerful
sensitivity to the polarities of the subtle nervous system and tunes us to the
deep, primal bliss-flow of Kundalini Devi. It is a method of inducing
full-bodied, ecstatic, and spiritually expansive sensations, while
recalibrating the entire Soul body. Also requiring a deep level of trust,
it is an intimate method for surrendering to Divinity within the Self, or a
partner. It is one of the most powerful ways of directly stimulating the
flow of Kundalini in the Sushumna Nadi. It should be practiced with grace,
love, appreciation, and with along with a foundation of non-physical spiritual
practices as well, to maintain a healthy balance between the senses and the
breath.
Awakening the root (chakra)
represents an new level of sensual and spiritual awareness, and can be an
extremely liberating practice for both men and women when done in the right
context, and with proper preparation.
Awakening the root provides
the opportunity to exchange fearful and dominant, or aggressive programming,
for extreme, ecstatic, full-bodied, multiple cycle, spiritually expansive
climaxes in a sensual setting.
In life, we must flow with
Love, and as we are collectively embodying the fluidity of the feminine Self,
relaxing the root is essential.
Nerves and muscle groups
associated with the root chakra are often storehouses of tension associated
with general fear of physical existence, or death, and shame. Opening the root
chakra exposes sensitivities and insecurities which are stored when we:
associate with physical, emotional, or mental dominance, are imbalanced in our
masculine and feminine aspects, have not come to terms with existence beyond
the physical realm which is essential in awakening one’s spirituality.
The area surrounding our root
represents the primal, sensual, and creative level of our beings, and is the
focus of intense magnetic attraction. The rings of muscle within the inner root
opening (sphincters), and the prostate gland, contain highly sensitive nerve
endings which can induce intense states of sensual excitement. Because of the
complexity of the nerve network connected to the root, intimate, sensual
massage in this area can lead to an extended, expansive, and deeply
recalibrating experience, in which we may experience ecstatic full-body
sensations and multiple cycle climaxes. In men especially, climax can be
induced by prostate stimulation alone, which is therapeutic on mental and
emotional levels, and deeply relaxing and pleasurable on a physical level.
Once we are comfortable with
being sensual in our roots, the ecstasy of spiritual exploration is brought to
an extreme, and we are able to experience the blissful cosmic orgasm of Life
throughout our entire being.
ॐ Massaging the root is a sacred technique that creates a powerful
sensitivity to the polarities of the subtle nervous system and tunes us to the
ecstatic flow of Kundalini Devi.
ॐ Massage the entire body to inspire a state of complete Kundalini
arousal before massaging the most sensitive inner nerves of the root. The
entire system is connected to the root in a powerful way, and root play can
inspire full body experiences when full arousal is reached ॐ
Many men are troubled by these
massages because they think there is something "homosexual" about it,
especially if it is pleasurable. They might feel differently if they knew the
extent to which neglect ultimately results in prostate dysfunction,
malfunction, and disease. Inserting a finger into the anus never turned anyone
into a homosexual.
ॐ Root-play is meant to inspire Kundalini flow in both the negative and
positive polarities of the chakra system, giving full-system arousal. Feel the
interplay between pleasure in the positively charged frontal chakras (yoni and
lingam) and the negatively charged root chakra.
ॐ One exciting way to play is with a strap-on toy. The female wears the toy
and penetrates the male/female. This is an extremely liberating and
recalibrating practice. It is more of an advanced technique and may require
experimentation ॐ
ॐ Sharing a toy, having it inserted into both partners simultaneously, and
playing in such a way, creates a continuous circuit of Kundalini flow between
partners, allowing them to be absorbed in the blissful sensations of Oneness ॐ
ॐ Anal plugs are helpful for balancing male and female currents of Shakti,
and opening Kundalini flow in the negative polarity of the chakras. A plug is
pleasurable to receive, and may be kept inserted throughout penetration and at
other times.ॐ
ॐ As this area is highly sensitive, it is especially reactive to touch ॐ
ॐ Take it slow and easy, massaging the entire area of the root, (perineum,
inner thighs, butt, inner butt) mindfully, with deep focus and love ॐ Always
consensual, precautions, hygiene, common sense, care and love.
The origins and philosophy of
the Tantric lifestyle can be traced to Tantric elements in both Hinduism and
Buddhism, and predate Taoist philosophy.
Hinduism accepted an open
attitude towards sex as an art and spiritual practice. The most famous pieces
of Indian literature on sex is the Kamasutra.
The Birth of
Tantrism
The ancient Tantric movement
peaked between 700--1200 CE.
The way to share energy was
through sexual intercourse. "The essence of Tantra is this union of male
and female energy, a union that is both mental and physical.
Mantras
A mantra is a phrase or collection of syllables said deliberately and
repeatedly, like a fugue in music. It can be voiced or silent. Mantrum
is used as a form of meditation or brain entrainment. Their purpose is to
concentrate and direct spiritual energy, by removing or quieting mind. The most
commonly used and most popular Tantric mantra is "Om Mani Padme Aum"
which literally translates to "the jewel is in the lotus" or is
another way of saying "the lingam is in the yoni."
Coitus
Reservatus and Coitus Obstructus
From the perspective of the male practitioners, sexual intercourse in these
circumstances was very purposeful. There were strict guidelines to follow. The
goal was to increase the concentration of female energy in the male body. This
was accomplished through extreme discipline and by following a prescribed
methodology.
After intercourse, depending
on the sect, the man would not ejaculate at all or would do so only after the
woman had at least one, or preferably many orgasms.
Therefore, a man should strive
to bring a woman to many orgasms and delay his own because he would then
benefit both. It is important to note that the motivation for prolonged intercourse and
encouraging sexual pleasure and orgasm in women was a sly and selfish male
desire. To attain this goal, men were instructed to learn how to delay their
own orgasm for as long as possible. They were advised to use mental meditative
powers, self discipline and manual intervention (eiaculari obstructus or
interruptus).
Conclusions
The mystique of Tantric practices has fascinated the world since the days of
it's peak in India.
In the late 1970's, sex researchers, rediscovered
that it was possible for men to be trained to experience the pleasure of orgasm
(possibly several times) without ejaculation. When the western world
"rediscovered" the same thing in very old eastern "Tantric"
tradition, a renewed interest in the rituals and practices of Tantrism was
sparked.
Tantra is arguably the oldest
known art of sacred sexuality practiced today. The true story of the
origins of Tantra is obscure, to say the least. The various versions of its
origins include Tantra as being a well-organized system from some factions of
Hinduism. Others say it came from Buddhist sects. Still others say it gradually
developed from communities within small East Indian villages.
Some people believe that
Tantra evolved from the practice of yoga, which, like Tantra, is about
liberation and joining. In fact, many of the physically challenging sexual
positions of Tantric lovemaking are actually yoga postures used for personal
awakening.
White Tantra
Some esoterists (with
tendencies to oriental esotericism) who traveled in the east investigated the
Asian continent and arrived at the conclusion that in Tibet as well as in
India, Tantra is the only truly practical school. Many ashrams exist in the
sacred land of the Vedas. They practice and study Yoga within these ashrams;
however, the most serious ashrams are exclusively those where the Tantric
teaching is abundant. In the Hindustani markets, studious travelers can find
marvelous Tantric books like Kama Kalpa and Kama Sutra.
The Tantric practitioners from
secret Tibet and sacred India practice the positive Sexual Yoga; this is to
connect the Lingam-Yoni without the ejaculation of the Ens Seminis.
An interchange of caresses
between the man and the woman is previously required in order to perform the
sexual connection of the Lingam-Yoni during this Tantric sadhana, thus the woman
finally absorbs the phallus.
The couple must restrain the
sexual impulse and avoid the ejaculation of the semen. The Gnostic Tantric
sadhana is very simple. During the Tantric act, man and woman practice in the
normal or ordinary sexual position; what is important is to withdraw from the
sexual act before the spasm in order to avoid the ejaculation of their semen.
Black Tantra
These black yogis (Asura
Sambhava) commit the crime of ejaculating the semen (Shuhra) during the
Maithuna.
Gray Tantra
But if commits the error of ejaculating the
semen and propose to delay ejaculation more each time, then White
energy is possible.
The Sahaja-Maithuna
“Sexual Magic”, orgasm without spasm, without seminal ejaculation, is the
same Urdhvarata Hindustan the Pradipika of the Yoguines or its Famous
Kriya-yoga Supra-sexual.
Ejaculation is a form of
orgasm, that draws energy from the body. Other forms of orgasm contain the
energy in the body for long periods of time. This is a
secret knows to Indians, Taoists and other old cultures, but barely know in the
West. Sportsmen like football.
The obstacle to be overcome by
the Tantric man is the idea that sex without ejaculation as the final
destination is no longer enjoyable. We have in fact become addicted to that
kind of sex. Men that have sex without ejaculating for more than two weeks,
will notice that they feel more energy, clarity, direction and connection with
their partner. We are all know how often after orgasm the desire for sex is
completely gone, and all you want is to go to sleep or do something else.
After three weeks most men
will feel a distinct change, and if they keep practicing, they will cease to
need to ejaculate.
What you will experience after
some practice, is a new kind of orgasm: the Whole Body orgasm, without the loss
of sperm. This orgasm lasts longer and is felt throughout the entire body. It
is not a peak experience where the body releases tension as with ejaculation.
Rather, it is a long lasting sense of bliss and power, where the sex can be
continued for much longer, because it is felt for much longer, which maintains
the connection with your partner.
Important in this process is,
that you can always ejaculate if you really want, only then you will be in
control of it. There is a lot of difference between ejaculating several times a
week, or twice a month. At the same time, you do not have to be afraid that you
could not make love tantrically if you DO ejaculate. And in the other hand male
should achieve lots of orgams before any drop leaks from your pennis.
It can feel as though the energy spreads from your
penis and testicles throughout the whole body. There is more movement and
warmth in your body, and enjoyment is prolonged. Sex may last for hours, making
the both of you more energetic and clearer during the day. This will get deeper
and deeper, without any end to it. This involves much practice, and ejaculation
no longer is the main objective of love making.
Sexual relationships and the
energy that they arouse are considered resources for fueling and supporting
spiritual unfoldment, not just for sex or pleasure
as an end in itself.
The essence of these teachings
is that when lovemaking is not goal-directed (as in seeking to achieve orgasm
or other pleasures), but rather takes on a more calm, relaxed, meditative
quality, there is a subtle building of a charge of energy in the body. The
tantric teachings are based on the circulation and merging of vital energy (chi
or prana) between two people.
Why Men Fall Asleep
The male orgasm involves an
outward explosion and release of jing whereas the female orgasm is an inward
explosion. When a man ejaculates he is releasing vital essence or energy which
is carried out of his body by the ejaculatory fluids.
The temporary feeling of
depletion that men have after ejaculation is thus a true representation of what
has happened. As men age and their natural reservoir of jing diminishes, their
recovery period after ejaculation -- before they are capable of another
erection and ejaculation -- increases.
Men who use tantric sexual
practices that involve semen retention -- that is, intercourse without
ejaculation -- do not experience this depletion of vital essence, and in fact
feel more energized afterward. It is like having their batteries recharged or
receiving an infusion of vital energy, rather than the feeling of depletion.
Plus, they are able to have intercourse more often, for longer periods, and
enjoy more potency in the process.
Why Women Don't
Women do not lose vital
essence during orgasm because it is not being expelled out of the body, as
is the case for the male. The female orgasm is more of an implosion than an
explosion.
Since
our culture is obsessed with the notion that orgasm and ejaculation are the
"logical" outcome of every sexual encounter, weakening the prostate
in the process.
TANTRIC MASSAGE
Semen Retention And How It
Will Change Your Life
Semen retention is the
practice of abstaining from ejaculation.
Ancient philosophies and
medical practices from Asia and India have long claimed that semen retention
leads to better health and longer life.
Ejaculation reduces the
life-force available to a man, which is evident from the
immediate drop in energy, and generally depressed nature, which can be observed
after ejaculating.
Sexual energy created during
arousal must also be transmuted, to take full advantage of semen retention.
Frequent sexual arousal, as much as possible, without ejaculation, builds
stamina and energy and increase the desire to get the woman to reach
many climaxs.
Peace, love & tantric
sexual energy & union. Male not allowed to ejaculate, multiorgasmic without
ejaculation (cum), constantly edged to ejaculate not permitted or ruined. Female
being provided of massages, cares and orgasms. Everything consensual, growing
together, always with care and love.
Love between two. One body.
ALSO CONSENSUAL FANTASY COULD BE.
TANTRIC LOVE.